Happy 1/2 birthday, sweet Caleb! It's hard to believe that you are on your way to turning four. Where does the time go?!! At 3 1/2 you are an amazing little guy- talkative, inquisitive, friendly, impulsive, stubborn, and helpful are some of the words I'd use to describe you. For those that know you well, the word talkative doesn't quite do you justice. Seriously, some days you do not stop talking. Ever. You are a total sponge, soaking up as much knowledge about your world as you can. Honestly, I don't have many of the answers to your questions. Conversations with you go like this...
You: Why do we have insulation?
Me: To help keep our house cool in the summer and warm in the winter.
You: What does it do in the spring?
Me: Um, I don't know how to answer that.
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You:Why does Santa say "Ho ho ho?" What does "Ho ho ho" mean?
Me: Um, I don't know really.
(Luckily you are okay with that answer!)
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One of the things about you that cracks me up is your stubbornness. While it does drive me crazy now, I know that if you use your power for good and not evil, you will go so far! For example, one morning I decided to reward you with three pieces of candy (Sweet Tarts, one of your favorites) because you didn't call me at all to your room the night before. This was a surprise reward, something we hadn't talked about prior. After showing you the candy and telling you what it was for, how proud I was of you, etc., you said that you wanted four pieces, not three. I said "no," and to my surprise, you refused to take the three pieces of candy. You simply walked away. In your mind, if you couldn't have four, you didn't want any.
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Many, many times a day we hear...
"I got a great idea." You say your "great" idea, then follow up with "wouldn't that be great?!"
At 3 1/2 you LOVE...~having conversations with anyone who will listen
~treats (Candy, candy, bubble gum, and more candy)
~playing with your "snap blocks" (Trio building set)
~watching movies: Ice Age, Monsters Inc, Toy Story 1, 2, & 3
~playing with your pretend food (You pretend you work at various restaurants, take our order, and then bring our food.)
~helping out around the house (Cooking, cleaning, getting me things, etc.)
~going places (Grandparents' houses, the mall, etc.)
~when people come to visit you
At 3 1/2, you do NOT like...
~vegetables (except raw carrots)
~trying new food
~being told "No", especially when it has to do with candy
~your "night terrors," which occur 4 or 5 nights out of the week. (Thankfully you don't remember having them.)
At 3 1/2, we are working on...
~going to bed without you calling us back to your room
~not yelling "NO!" to us
~using your "listening ears" (Hearing what we say and not what you want us to be saying!)
~tracing shapes, letters, and numbers
~table manners
We LOVE every single little thing about you, Caleb, even those things that drive us crazy right now! And like you say, Everybody loves Caleb!
You are one special little guy. I can't fathom what's in store for you, but I hope you know that you've got lots of people praying for you and what's to come!